The Bachelor
The bachelor is American reality television dating show debuting in 2002 on ABC.The show airs on 10pm eastern/9pm central time. According to Wikipedia “The series was renewed until spring 2008”.Every day from 5 to 7pm, millions of Americans tune in to watch other people go on dates. (Petracca& Sorapure, 2007 pg.51)Why do people like to watch reality dating program?
Number one reason is it is fun to see other people getting rejected on television (Petracca& Sorapure, 2007 pg 51).Why is fun to see other facing humiliation? People feel connected due to sting of rejection in the past therefore we would like to see other suffer similar fate. It allows us to revile some of our past worse experience without any sense of personal risk. After all it gives better chance of tasting “dating water” without going on date. It is safe to watch from distance rather than getting involved and end up hook up with someone who turns out being complete a jerk. There is question of safety .There is a lot of disease of sexual diseases out there. Let’s not forget most these shows runs at the time most of us are just getting home from long day at work. Who has the energy after that to go on date? Therefore let someone else bare the humiliation for us.People on the show are just like us (Petracca &Sorapure, 2007 pg 51).By using real people and placing them in real situation allow to eliminate misconception from viewers that everything is being scripted .Instead viewers feel these stunt being the spontaneous events. However these people are more superficial because they know they are in front of camera, and they use more make up to look more beautiful.There are a lot hot guys and girls on the show (Petracca&Sorapure, 2007).There are attractive people on dating show trying to seduce each other so they act and dress in a very sex way. Furthermore it gives the viewers feeling that they are also in the date and be able to choose the criteria and screening of possible date mate.
There are important lessons to learn from this reality television show .You can learn dating world by watching other people’s mistake and improve your social skills.
In conclusion, I have a strong opinion about reality dating television. Let us be honest with ourselves how many people went to the show and really found their true love and end up in successful marriage ?I don’t think this is right way to find genuine true love .
